Getting Closer to Getting Together

You seriously consider visiting your Russian Princess now. Moreover, you even discuss and are ready to settle a date of your visit. What are the things that you should concentrate most at?

First of all, take into account the fact that in most cases it's you who visits your bride for the first time, and hardly ever vice versa. Your Russian Bride may visit you first of course, but these cases are quite exceptional. Mostly because of the visa situation which doesn't always turn out favourable for Russian ladies. As a rule, you visit first, she shows you around and then you invite her to your country with more officially-inclined intentions. Her visit is usually surrounded with many difficulties.

But before that, you should get well-prepared for your first visit to Mother Russia, and particularly, to your future Russian Wife of course. Now that you consider it more than seriously – don't forget to remind your lady about it from time to time. We have already dwelled upon the fact that your (any) long-distance relationship requires patience and great desire to keep the fire burning on both sides which implies you staying in touch 24/7 using all possible ways to do it – phone conversations, real time chats on instant messengers, same old e-mail etc But you should also remember that your conversations require certain direction and thought that you must stick to, keep up and follow.

'What are you on about?' you might ask. It's all simple. Only now when the moment of truth is very real and reachable, your Russian lady completely realizes that she may leave the scenery she got oh so used to for some unknown brand new world where she will trust only one person. She will leave her family, friends, work, all the Russian little things that have over years become her habits etc. And now she should seriously prepare herself for the thought that she will soon face and step on the totally unexplored land where everything is different from what she have seen and experienced before. This thought isn't so vague and faraway for her now, it's right in her head wiggling there constantly, bringing on doubts and second thoughts.

You probably realize that the latter parasites inside your Russian Lady's pretty head are undesired, especially for you as a man whose intentions towards your woman are earnest and tend to remain unchanged always and forever.

Which is why your main task here is to concentrate on making your conversations with your Russian love as rich in content as possible. What exactly does it mean? It suggests that whenever you are in contact with your Russian lady you should speak about your future together, about your plans regarding your future family, your future dwelling, your common activities, your travelling plans maybe, anything that would make all possible doubts of your woman disappear. Talk to her about your future children, ask her how much she wants, and tell her you want more. Tell her about your family and how eager they are to see her and accept her as a 'legal' member, about the house where you will live together, how comfortably your big bed feels and how you'll turn it into a bed of roses when she is there next to you and many many other reassuring stuff aiming at making your lady stop being afraid of all these changes. Your Russian darling needs to hear it all from you because you are the only close person to support her when she steps onto the Land of your almost common already but oh so new to her world.